1. Often Reschedule Plans :
Everyone wants to feel special and the best way of making a person feel special is to spend time with that person. Spending time together in a relationship is very important. However, if a girl is always cancelling dates or postponing them then the guy would feel that he has no importance in her life. This would definitely weaken the relationship and the guy will start having second thoughts about what is he doing with that girl.
2. Poor Communication:
At times, girls dont like or agree what their boyfriend is saying, but they still nod their head in 'affirmative'. But what happens is that later on when things arent very smooth they explode and take out their anger about everything; including the thing she didnt like or agreed upon but had said 'fine'. This outburst often destroys relationships. This 21st century guys like girls who can atleast speak their minds aloud and are not submissive. So, be explicit. You dont have to be harsh or rude but patiently put your viewpoint before them.
3. Fair Play:
When in relationship, boys notice everything. They see whether you are being fair or just trying to use him. For example, its always him paying the bills or you calling him to pick you at odd times even when you can convenient manage yourself. This is not 80s, guys like girls who can take up responsibilities once in a while without whinning.
4. Ultimatums:
One of the biggest reason of turn off of mens dating flames is the 'ultimatums'. Men dont like to be treated as robots meaning if you keep telling them to do things and that also by a certain deadline then this gets on their nerves. They are humans! Please treat them like one. Putting ultimatums on each and everything will destroy the love you share. So, please be flexible.
5. Trying to change them:
Stop! Stop! Stop! Stop trying to change your man. Let them who they are. You fell in love with the person he was not with the person you want him to be. Men hate it when you try to change their eating habits or style, etc. You can suggest things, but dont impose yourself and your choice on them. Give them their space; space to breathe; to be who they are!
This article doesnot intends to hurt the feelings of the female lot reading it. Neither am i taking side of the male gender. Its just that at times you make mistakes unintentionally which could cost you a relationship. So, girls please avoid doing these kind of things.
I wish you all happy relationship.
